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You are here. And for today, that can be enough.
Unless you win the lottery, your life isn’t going to change overnight.
Now that doesn’t mean you have to accept where you are and not even try for something else, or that you will never get to where you want to be, but it does mean:
T𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰.
Just because you want a different life for yourself doesn’t mean that this one is a waste.
Just because you want a different body for yourself doesn’t mean this one has failed you.
Just because you want a different job doesn’t mean this job hasn’t taught you anything.
Just because you want a different relationship doesn’t mean that this one hasn’t given you something at times when you needed it.
I could go on and on, but my point is, it’s ok to be 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 even when you want to be 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞.
It’s ok not to be ready to take that first step.
It’s ok to feel scared about making a change in your life.
And it’s ok to feel sad about where you are right now.
And even if your life is great and you are genuinely happy, it is ok to want more.
Remove the self-judgment, the blame, and the “shoulds.”
It is enough to just be.